PERSONALITY

PERSONALITY. Who’s a personality? A person who have lots of money? Or a person who is a big Film star? A person who’s leading the nation or a person who’s running a big empire? Who’s a PERSONALITY? Who’s actually a personality? Can anyone tell me? For you all a Personality is a person who’s a big person in terms of financial status. One who’s a Film Star, a Businessman, a Sportsperson and the list go on. Well in my case it’s a different. If you’ll ask me who’s a personality for me, my answer will be: “EVERYONE I KNOW”.

Yeah, exactly. That’s true. For me everyone who’s around me is a Personality. Well may be I’m seeing something which you are not able to see that’s why you all are not seeing a Personality around you. But I must tell you, we all are surrounded by a Personality. We just have to tilt our way of looking at them a bit. If we able to do then I’m sure you all will find yourself surrounded by at least one Personality. Then this term will have a wider meaning rather than narrow as it’s now. I’m glad to share my vision and definition of a Personality with you. Well not getting away from topic I would like to come directly on my vision of a Personality. The first Personality we all met in our life is someone whom we know well. Any guess? They are our PARENTS. Yeah they are a Personality. You all might be thinking how they can be a Personality? Right? Well I know my Parents are. My mom never ever said no to me whenever I was hungry. She used to leave her work and used to feed me. I still remember when I was in school, my sister timing and my timing of returning from school was having a difference of 2 hours. I used to reach early. And she used to make hot chapatti for us leaving her all work. We always got hot chapatti on plate. After my sister had her food after coming from school, she used to eat despite how much hungry she was. She used to wait for us. I like sweets lot. And my mom knows it. She also likes sweets. But she used to save all sweets for me. After me, she used to eat. On being asked she will smile and say, “I’m your mother. How could I’ve it before you when I know you like it?” Now as I’m in Pune pursuing my further studies, still she used to save some sweets for me as she knows that I’ll come on vacations and I like sweets. According to her, a mother can’t have anything when she knows that her child like that. She used to take me to the shop on my b’days and used to buy clothes for me. I used to say that I don’t one but she used to take me to the shop and would insist on buying a cloth. I just can’t forget those moments. They still come in front of my eyes. How can I forget during festivals? These are some events which I can’t forget. She used to stand outside the house if I used to get 5 minutes late from my tuitions. She still loves me the same way although we are 1600 kms away from each other. Whenever she used to call, she always says, “Never be shy on eating sweets. If u likes to eat certain sweet then go ahead and eat. I used to remember you always and especial when I cook something which is your favourite.” It’s been three years in Pune, but still when I come from there, her eyes get wet. She’s running a small ladies shop and she looks after the house too. But at night of my leaving from there, she used to be awake whole night, cooking something for me. Some sweet, some salty. Everything. She keeps running from house to shop, but till now I never got cold food. I always got hot food. She cooks when we want to eat. She never prepared food in advance just for her convenience. In spite she is handling two things at a time; she always took care of us very well. I used to demand what I want to eat and she used to prepare that. My sister and I’ve a different taste but she never complained. She used to prepare food for both of us. She used to prepare two different types of food for both if us without any complaint. She always gave us what was good for us. She took proper care for us. When I was a kid, she taught us all good habits. Today people say that I’m well behaved and they all like me for that. The whole credit goes to her. I was taught that I have to be calm and quiet and should respect everyone despite their age. Whenever I didn’t obeyed her she shouted and taught me well. She was one of the people to make me a good human being. I used to be a good student during my childhood. So one day a teacher just seeing my name gave me good marks for all the wrong answer. When my Mom checked out she went to my teacher and said that she did wrong by giving me full marks for the wrong answer. From her learnt to be honest. She used to do all her work despite the other person is cursing her. From her I learnt to do your work sincerely and perfectly. She taught me to be frank and to be good to every person. She taught me to respect every human being. She nourished me to be a good human being. If people praise me for being a good human being, I owe it to her. It’s all because of her people like me, respect me and love me. I just can’t thank her in words at all. She is the one of the Personality I know. For me she a GOD. No wonder how bad her child is, she can never ever think anything bad for her child. My salute to My MOM and all the MOM of the earth. I LOVE YOU MOM. YOU ARE BEST. I LOVE YOU A LOT.